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Donald Lee
Dahlem
Apr 7, 1938 — Feb 21, 2026
Ballwin
Dahlem, Donald Lee, passed away, Saturday, February 21, 2026.
Beloved husband of Michele Dahlem (nee Lenich); dear father of Laura (Mike) Van Well, David (Tatiana) Dahlem, Terry Dahlem, and Gerri Ann Dahlem; proud grandfather Luke and Charlie Van Well, Shane and Jackson Dahlem, Josh Dahlem, Simone (Garrett) Mabry, James (Alyssa), Andrew and Jennifer Smith; loving son of the late William and Elizabeth Dahlem (nee Gerlach); brother-in-law of John and Bill Lenich; our dear great-grandfather, uncle, great-uncle, cousin and friend of many.
Don loved his family with unwavering loyalty, dedicated to their happiness and well-being. He found peace in the quiet rhythm of gardening and joy in the pages of a good book, nurturing both the earth and his own curious spirit. A proud Past Master Mason of Bonhomme Lodge #45 A.F. & A.M. and lifetime member of Kaskaskia Lodge #86 A.F. & A.M. in Red Bud, Illinois, he carried the values of service, integrity, and brotherhood into all he did. His presence was a steady light, and his legacy lives on in those he loved.
Services: Funeral service at St. John United Church of Christ, 332 Old Sulphur Spring Road, Manchester, Saturday, February 28, at 11:00 a.m. Interment at St. John United Church of Christ Cemetery, Manchester. If desired, contributions may be made to Circle of Concern or Shriners Children's . Visitation at the SCHRADER Funeral Home and Crematory, 14960 Manchester Road at Holloway, Ballwin, Friday, February 27, from 4-8 p.m. and at St. John United Church of Christ, Saturday, February 28, from 10-11 a.m. Friends may sign the family's on-line guestbook at Schrader.com.
Friday
Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory
4:00 - 8:00 pm
Saturday
St. John United Church of Christ
10:00 - 11:00 am
Saturday
St. John United Church of Christ
Starts at 11:00 am
Saturday
St. John United Church of Christ Cemetery
Starts at 11:45 am
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