Dr. Gary W. DeLancey, longtime West County Optometrist, at peace on Saturday, August 29, 2026.  Devoted husband of Carmella 'Cam' DeLancey (nee Giorango).  Beloved father of Susan (Fred) Hanser and Debra Bussmann.  Cherished grandfather of Alex (Tawny) Hanser, Emily (Justin) Lashley, Maddey Bussmann, Sarah Bussmann, Lily Bussman and Mia Bussmann.  Loving great-grandfather of Aria, Astoria, Annie and Otto.

For more than 50 years, Dr. DeLancey devoted his life to caring for others.  As an optometrist, he built a remarkable career defined not only by his knowledge and skill but by the genuine care he showed to all of his patients.  Dr. DeLancey was also deeply respected by his colleagues and peers.  Throughout his career he received numerous awards and honors recognizing his professional accomplishments, dedication and service in the field of optometry.  His commitment to service extended beyond his profession.  Dr. DeLancey proudly served in the United States Air Force and the Missouri Air National Guard, retiring as a Lieutenant Colonel.

To his patients, he was a trusted doctor.  To his colleagues, he was a respected professional and friend.  To his military colleagues he was a dedicated Officer.  And to his family, he was simply husband, dad and grandpa.  Those who knew him will remember his intelligence, his strong character, his sense of humor, his dedication, and his ability to make people feel like they mattered.

His family takes comfort in knowing that the gift of his care will continue through the many lives he touched over his extraordinary 50 plus year career.  The thousands of people that trusted him with their vision and the countless people who simply knew and loved him will carry his memory forward.  He will be deeply missed and forever remembered.

Services:   Funeral Mass on Wednesday, September 2, 2026, 11:30 a.m. at Holy Infant Catholic Church, Ballwin with visitation starting at 10:30 a.m.  Entombment Holy Cross Cemetery. If desired, contributions may be made to the American Heart Association .  Friends may sign the family's on-line guestbook at Schrader.com.