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Patricia "Pat"
Rose Roy
Sep 25, 1944 — Jan 31, 2026
Ballwin
Patricia "Pat" Rose Roy, age 81, of Ballwin, Missouri, passed away peacefully on January 31, 2026, surrounded by her loving family.
Pat was born on September 25, 1944 to Edward and Jane Nelson. She grew up in Kirkwood, Missouri, where she attended Ursuline Academy and met her best friend, who eventually introduced her to her future husband.
She married Thomas Roy on August 11, 1967 and they went on to have five beautiful children together. Pat was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother (Nana), great grandmother (Nana), and friend. Her family was always the most important thing to her. She was very strong in her faith, no matter what life brought her way. Her positivity was contagious and her smile lit up every room.
Pat is survived by her husband of 58 years, Thomas Roy and their precious fur baby Gizzy; her children, Sandra (Tony) Monica, Thomas (Stacey) Roy, Timothy (Kym) Roy, and Sean Roy, Timothy Reisner (son-in-law); her grandchildren, Megan (Clay) Taylor, Jerry Dooling, Hope (Leon) White, Meghan Hollis, Toni Monica, Timothy (TJ) Reisner, Jeremy Reisner, Emilynn Roy, Kamerynn Roy, Lilynn Roy, Vivynn Roy, Justin Roy, and Alexa Roy; her great grandchildren, Carter Taylor, Adelyn Taylor, Meghan Hollis, Josephine Hollis, Isabella Reisner, and Lilian Reisner. She was preceded in death by her parents and her beloved daughter, Deborah Reisner.
Services: Funeral Mass at Holy Infant Catholic Church, Ballwin, Tuesday, February 10, 2026 at 9:30 a.m. Interment Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery. Visitation Monday, February 9, 2026 from 4-8 p.m. Friends may sign the family's on-line guestbook at Schrader.com.
Monday
Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory
4:00 - 8:00 pm
Tuesday
Holy Infant Catholic Church
Starts at 9:30 am
Tuesday
Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery
Starts at 11:00 am
Visits: 2
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