Hanephin, Ronald James "Toad", passed away surrounded by loved ones, Friday, January 16, 2026. Beloved husband of Patty Hanephin (nee McGoldrick); devoted father of Shannon Hanephin and Lori (Darren) Kitson; cherished grandfather of Madison Kacer and Carter Kacer; dear brother-in-law, uncle, cousin, friend to many.

Toad was a proud American that served his country in the First Calvary Infantry Division in the US Army serving in Vietnam.  He was the recipient of several honorary medals for his service, including the Combat Infantryman Badge, a distinction awarded to those who served in active combat. His service reflected courage, dedication, and an unwavering commitment to his fellow soldiers and to his country. He loved his family and friends. He loved to fish and enjoyed the Saturday Night Poker Games. Toad grew up in Eureka where he was a lifelong resident, and a pillar of the community. His family owned Hanephin's Restaurant for 48 years, where he made many lifelong friends.

"A beautiful life that came to an end, he died as he lived, everyone's friend.  In our hearts a memory will always be kept, of one we loved and will never forget."

Services:    A Full Military Honors service will be held outdoors at the Elks Lodge in Eureka, Missouri, on January 24, 2026 at 3:00 p.m., followed by a Celebration of Life inside the lodge, ending at 7:00 p.m.  In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St. Jude Children's Hospital . As a service of the SCHRADER Funeral Home and Crematory, friends may sign the family's on-line guestbook at Schrader.com.